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Wednesday, August 4, 2021

Official Spa Buddy Open Thread Part 84 - Delta Variant edition

NOTE: I started a new post because the other one was getting too full of comments! So use this one instead. 

UPDATE: We have a Discord server now: https://discord.gg/mYsZfpdrPw

I decided to create this post specifically so you guys can post in the comments if you're looking for someone to go to a spa with, or meet up there, or whatever... makes it a lot easier than going through all the previous posts to see if people have posted there. So if you're planning to go and want to meet people there, you can post (or look) here instead!


A few guidelines...

(1) Post some information about yourself...physical description, age, ethnicity, interests and hobbies... I really don't care. I'm not going to force you to reveal everything about yourself, but I'm not going to drive all the way to Koreatown to hang out with someone that I know absolutely nothing about.

(2) Sign your name, nickname, user name, whatever you make up to identify yourself. It makes it a lot easier to reply  to you, as opposed to "hey, third person to reply to this comment"

(3) Be specific...

     GOOD: "I'll be at Century Spa from 7pm-11pm tonight (Nov. 2), wearing a black digital sports watch and my key on my left ankle. And carrying a green water bottle."

     BAD: "I'll be at the spa tonight. I'm the guy with a towel. Say hi!"

(4) If you want to talk to someone privately, leave some kind of contact information! It can be a blogger profile that you're logged into, an adam4adam or dudesnude profile, your email address, whatever. One idea is to post something on Craigslist... when you do that, they give you a throwaway temporary email address that forwards to your own email... it's useful if you don't want to post your email address here.

(5) Maybe make some mention of your expectations. If you're looking to jerk off (or more), say so. If you absolutely don't want to do anything sexual and just want to hang out nude with other guys, say so. Not everyone is going there for the same thing. Also remember that Korean spas are not sex clubs, so please consider moving it someplace else if there's mutual interest, and be respectful of those who don't want to see sexual activity.

(6) Be respectful. Don't be racist, ageist, etc... Remember that this isn't your private home, and you can't just tell a certain class of people that they're not welcome.

(7) Don't ask "What is [insert spa name here] like?"... I've written a LOT of reviews on this website, so why not read them first? Reviewed spas:

70 comments:

  1. Anyone going to wi spa tomorrow? I'll be there at 10pm. Asian twink here. Will wear key on my left ankle

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  2. Hey guys I know it’s not a k spa but anyone ever gone to Santa Monica Burke Williams and played ? Is there any ? And is nudity a thing there ?

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    1. I went a few years ago and guys mostly wear their towels unless getting in the jacuzzi or showering. The sauna is such that when you open the door you are not in the main room of the sauna for a few steps - and I did see some guys JOing until the door would open

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    2. Yes, it's cruisy but not as much as before.

      It's European style so no one "walks around" nude.

      Some guys will let it hang in the steam room leading to some JO sessions. I've seen some guys do BJs. I've had my ass fingered in the steam room and dry sauna behind my towel.

      Had more than a few "straight" guys intiate.

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  3. I heard that Thera health spa opened up in OC. I may go this Sunday. Asian vers here

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  4. What do you gents think is the best time to hit up Wilshire on weekends?

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  6. Going to diamond family spa tonight.. hopefully some other people will be there too..

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  7. Anyone going to Descanso Gardens Spa in Tujunga?

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  8. Anyone going to wilshire spa tonight?

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  9. Quick update on Thera Spa... it is def open and has a 2 hr limit. New spa rates are $25, with $55 for a scrub and $70 for massage. Went there Sunday afternoon and while it was wasnt crowded, it was mostly older men just enjoying the spa as is. The place def looks cleaner and there are no more smells in the dry or wet sauna areas. Met a younger guy and proceeded to have some uninterrupted fun in the saunas but overall, it was relaxing and just glad it's back in business! No more drives to Pioneer or Imperial for this south oc resident :)

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    1. is there a men for massages? Does the oil massage take place on the wet area?

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    2. I went to Ispa on sunday and it was crowded too

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    3. Yes there is a guy for massages but I couldn't seem to find the original guy. There is another that is doing the cleaning and not sure if he is also doing the massage. The oil massage is done in a separate room and not in the wet area.

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    4. @spaguy, was it cruisy at I Spa ?

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  10. Century spa is such booty totally not worth it any more

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  11. Anyone going to Riviera Torrance tonight?
    Regular exhib guy here.

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    1. So cal guy. How was it ? Did you go ? I’ve notice that Sunday’s after 6 it’s very cruisy.

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    2. Never been to Riviera. How is it on a Friday night ?

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  12. Anyone going to Wilshire tonight? Might be there at 8

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  13. Is the steamroom back to 100% at Century yet? It's been pathetic recently.

    Wilshire has been pretty good these last few weeks. Perhaps lowered expectations, but there's at least a few athletic-looking guys and plenty opportunity to play.

    Way more with the money if you can't really play at Century :(

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  14. Yes, the steam room is good now but the hot guys are gone. I don't see a lot like before and they have no opportunity to play because the steam room always full with people who waiting for the action lol. If you buy 10 passes is $230 at Century compare to Wilshire $25 for a day pass? I haven't been there after re-opening so I don't know. Century facilities is the BEST.

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  16. Hey guys. Who comes to riviera ? Let’s do Thursday meet up day at 11am. It’s fairly quiet at this time and great spot to play. Of course… with caution.

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  17. Anyone going to diamond family spa in Rowland.. or imperial in Fullerton? Thinking about checking one of them out tonight.. anyone else going? Looking for fun?

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  18. Anybody want to chill at Thera Spa today? I'm thinking sometime between 12-2? SWM 40 long hair, smooth, stocky, tattoed.

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    1. it's that hairy massage therapist still there? he's great at getting on "top" of things.

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    2. Oh yeah, he's definitely pursuing his passion

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    3. Do tell more about this hairy massage therapist...

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    4. I agree I would also like to know more. @ egalden31@gmail.com

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    5. If you're into hairy husky build guy. He's in his 30s and strong hands. Saw him using the shower a few times and he has a nice hairy bod and cock.

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    6. Is he the only male massage therapist? I wouldn't mind a good massage.

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    7. I haven't been to Thera in over 5 years. Is the massage therapist the same guy who did the scrubs? Super soft-spoken and a little bit effeminate?

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    8. I got a massage there this weekend, and it was VERY relaxing... If you look up the Yelp reviews, you'll know who to ask for...

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    9. I couldn't find anything in the yelp review

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  19. Visiting for the day and want some entertainment at Wilshire Spa today 😉. What’s it like on a Monday?

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  20. I’m looking to get a body scrub, but deathly afraid of getting hard in the process. How is this handled? I went to wi spa and saw that the body scrub area is pretty much open for everyone to see.

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    1. If you go to any of the spas here, they are used to seeing everything. There is a small, skinny, older guy in his 60's, that used to work at Lions Spa, and now works at Century. The best scrub! Also, Carlos at Wilshire gives great scrubs and he is definitely used to hardons.

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    2. From my experience, I think it is rather hard (no pun intended) to get a hard on from a body scrub. With them scrubbing you down, they aren't necessarily caressing you. The touch is usually direct and to the point. The only times I have gotten a hard on is when the scrubber intentionally is doing it to get you hard.

      But otherwise, I think a hard on is nothing new to the scrubber. They've seen it all. So I would not worry too much.

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    3. I agree with Sbcasualgamer. If they are focused on the scrub, then nothing will happen. But I've had scrubs where the scrubber spends extra time there and that's when I get aroused, but it's intentional on the scrubber's part.

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    4. where is scrubber that will spend extra time down there? Please message me. usahkin@gmail.com

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  21. Has anybody here considered creating a group chat (on whatapp, telegram, etc.), a channel on discord, or even a reddit subreddit? I think it could be a fun idea to be able to talk and meet with other guys more easily.

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    1. @guysspaguide: let me know if this is something that you would be okay with me creating and promoting in the comments. I believe discord would be good since it is anonymous/discrete and functions like a chat room

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    2. @klming I'd be open to it I guess.

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    3. @guysspaguide: awesome, please let me know if at any point you no longer want me to promote the Discord on your page. No explanations needed. Otherwise, I will post the link each time you create a new thread. Let me know if you would also like to be an admin on the channel, I just want to make sure that you have a say on what gets posted on your page.

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    4. Here is the link to the Discord channel. Let me know if anybody has questions on how to access or use the channel. You can download the program on your computer or you could also just use the app on your phone.

      https://discord.gg/mYsZfpdrPw

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    5. Keep in mind that you don't have to download the app or program. If you just want to check it out, you can create a temporary/guest account and just access the channel via the internet browser. If you want to stay discrete, you can create a new temporary account each time

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  23. I will be in LA next Wed and Thurs. Whats the best place to play and also get a scrub?

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  24. Anybody wanna meet at Thera on Saturday afternoon?

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  25. I miss going to Wilshire and letting guys nut in my mouth while other guys are watching. So hot to feel a guy pulsate in your mouth.

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  26. So I went to Wilshire Spa yesterday evening. Everything seemed the same. I did get a body scrub. My body scrubber was Carlos. I felt he did a good job, as I could feel the dead skins coming off. I did...*ahem* get a hard on, but nothing kinky happened. He just kept on scrubbing.

    Overall, everything seemed the same. There were 2 separate group of guys who started to wear their board shorts/underwear. The male owner was like, no clothes in the hot tub. Outside/sauna/steam room, okay. But not in the water. I did find it sorta annoying/funny that, when they took off their board shorts/underwear, they covered up their penis with a towel soo tightly. And what I mean by that is, 1. You're at a Korean Spa not at the beach, so chill out! You're full of naked guys here. No one is REALLY looking at your penis. Sure, maybe a glance, but no one is completely staring and eyeing. I not in the best shape nor well-endowed, so I get the "embarassed" or feeling self-confidence, but at the same time, you are going to a KSpa, where you will be naked.

    As I tell my friends, "when you make (being naked) a big deal, it becomes a big deal. But if you don't make it a big deal, it's not a big deal."

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  27. I'm going to be in the OC area this weekend. Anyone want to go to a spa? I'll be free Saturday (10/23) afternoon/early evening. 39 Korean male 5'6" dad bod.

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  28. Why did everyone stop posting here. Spas seem like they are cruiser than ever right now.

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    1. a lot of people moved to the Discord server: https://discord.gg/hyzjfkSp

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  29. How do I get a Discord invite code? Thanks.

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  30. "Safari can't open the specified address."

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  31. hmm, no luck with the discord links...

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  32. Try this one for the discord link: https://discord.gg/rz9tEgrPKh

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